She/Him/Us (forthcoming)
She/Him/Us (forthcoming)
“Brimming with compassion, humor, solid information, and, most of all, love, She/Him/Us takes the reader into the harrowing experience of a mom with a trans-identified daughter who knows that her daughter is not, in fact, trans. This memoir is moving, engrossing, and captivating, and is bound to be a comfort and inspiration to many.”
—Lisa Marchiano, LCSW, author of Motherhood and When Kids Say They’re Trans
About the Book
In this thought-provoking and deeply moving memoir, psychiatrist Lisa Bellot recounts her personal journey as the mother of a trans-identified teen whom she did not believe was transgender. She/Him/Us offers an insightful exploration of the moral, psychological, and medical com-plexities surrounding the treatment of trans-identified children. Through her candid reflections and professional insights, Dr. Bellot challenges popular assumptions, urging readers to reconsider what we think we know about the gender-affirming model and the polarizing landscape inhabited by the most vulnerable among us.
About the Author
Lisa Bellot, MD, is a board-certified psychiatrist who has practiced in California for the past twenty years. She is the mother of two daughters.
Details
ISBN: 9781634312646
Format: paperback
SRP: $19.95
Page count: 210 pages
Trim size: 6 x 9
Pub date: August 2025
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“Dr. Lisa Bellot offers a courageous and deeply personal account of her journey as both a psychiatrist and a mother navigating her daughter’s struggle with gender identity. This is a story of hope and love—a memoir that makes an essential contribution to the ongoing discourse on gender and mental health.”
—Stella O’Malley, psychotherapist and author“In She/Him/Us, psychiatrist Lisa Bellot shares an unflinching account of parenting a trans-identified teen while her instincts whispered, ‘something is not right here.’ Told with honesty and grace, this memoir blends personal experience with medical and psychological information parents desperately need but rarely receive. In Bellot's writing, she questions, reflects, and ultimately chooses to engage more consciously and confidently with her daughter. This book is a powerful and necessary read for anyone trying to make sense of today’s precarious youth gender landscape.”
—Sasha Ayad, M.Ed., LPC
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About the Book
A medical scandal is currently unfolding across Western liberal societies. As Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans reveals, the primary victims are vulnerable, socially awkward kids with normally developing bodies who fall for the Internet-fueled promise that they can solve their emotional, psychological, or physical discomfort by adopting an opposite-sex identity. With deep reservations about the new gender orthodoxy that informs this promise and the irreversible one-size-fits-all medical prescription that comes with it, the parent contributors to this anthology share deeply personal stories about transition and desistance that won't be told at the gender clinic. They also offer practical advice based on hard-earned experience that won't be found in mainstream media. Whether progressive or conservative, gay or straight, secular or religious, they all share the aim of protecting children from the physical and emotional harms of the gender industry and seek to empower and encourage other parents and individuals to combat gender ideology at home, in schools, in clinics, and beyond.
About the Editors
Josie A. is a mother and co-founder of Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans. She lives on the West Coast. Dina S. is a mother and co-founder of Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans. She lives on the East Coast. Stella O’Malley is the founder of Genspect.
Details
ISBN: 9781634312462
Format: paperback
SRP: $19.95
Page count: 392 pages
Trim size: 6 x 9
Pub date: August 2023